First Published in Valley India Times, September, 2012
“Work unto death-I am with you, and when I am gone, my spirit will work with you.” These words of Swami Vivekananda bear testimony to the tremendous influence his extraordinary personality and teachings had on people all over the world during his life time and 110 years later.
While I and my husband were planning a vacation to New York last month, the first thing that crossed my mind was to Google information about the place where Swami Vivekananda , the first person who brought the message of Vedanta to the West, had stayed in New York during his first two visits to the US. We came across two such ashrams. The first was ‘Vivekananda Cottage’ in Thousand Island Park on Wellesley Island where he had stayed for seven weeks in the summer of 1895 to teach Vedanta. The second was ‘Vivekananda Retreat’ in Ridgley, located in the beautiful Hudson River valley in Stone Ridge ,owned by his friends Mr. and Mrs. Francis Leggett, where he had stayed three times during his two visits to in 1895 and in 1899. The first two times were in 1895- both short visits of about ten days each while the third one was from August 28 to November 7 in 1899. Mr. and Mrs. Legget had invited him over to this beautiful estate for rest and rejuvenation when he was exhausted from his strenuous schedule of lectures, classes and touring. Indeed those ten weeks were rare even for Swamiji, as never before in the West he had spent so long a time vacationing in one place.
‘Vivekananda Retreat’ was only two hours’ drive from Jersey City where we were staying with our friends, so we decided to begin our three day-vacation to New York with a trip to the Retreat. Following the website specifications for notification in advance about the visit, I had called and emailed to the minister in -charge about our proposed visit on 26th of July with a request to arrange for a volunteer to give us a tour of the ‘Retreat’. We rented a car and around noon left our friends’ home for Ridgley at Stone Ridge. Leaving behind the city crowd of freeway in around one and a quarter hour, we soon found ourselves driving through enormous grass lands and the lush green trees lined up on both sides of the road embracing each other preparing our minds for the serenity we were about to embrace soon. Encompassed by the tranquil serenity of Mother Nature, we were still relishing the warmth of Her blessings that we didn’t realize when our GPS announced ‘arriving at Vivekananda Retreat, Ridgley’. Spotting the huge sign “Vivekananda Retreat” at the gate of 82 acres of vast expansive pristine estate, I almost woke up from a trance “Oh, we are already there.” We drove in and pulled over at the first house we sighted. I already knew from the website that there was no front desk, so we walked in and settling on one of the cane chairs in the patio, called up the In-charge whom I had already notified about our visit. She then directed us to come to the ‘Manor House’ and ring the bell where the Ashram volunteer Shivani would give us tour of the house.
A five-minute walk took us to the ‘Manor House’. We pressed the bell, and a woman, probably in her sixties, dressed in a loose white top and grey jeans opened the door and graciously greeted us with a smile. She did not seem to be a person of Indian origin. Her first question to us was “How much do you know about Swamiji?” On being told that we were Swami Vivekananda’s devotees and were eager to experience the place that was frequently blessed by Swamiji’s physical presence, Shivani began her tour from the green couch located right at the entrance of the small sitting room where we stood. Glancing at the sacred green couch, adorned with Swamiji’s picture in the center, Shivani said this was the couch on which Swamiji used to take “undisturbed naps in the quiet afternoons, “lying at full length on the green couch in the Hall [Maud Stumm wrote], sound asleep like a tired child.” Since this is more than hundred years old and sacred, nobody is allowed to sit on it. She then pointed at the fire place and told us that this sofa was originally located there during Swamiji’s time. In the sitting room, she also showed us the table where sat a picture of Swamiji with his hosts Mr. and Mrs. Legget and his brother Monks; the picture was taken in the porch on the left side of the house in the fall of 1899.
From the sitting room, Shivani walked us to the large dining hall on the side that housed a huge dining table, the same table where Swamiji used to eat his meals. Pointing at the last chair in the farthest corner, she said “This is where he always used to sit. The chair may not be the same because these might have been switched around while cleaning, but this is the spot where he always preferred to sit for meals.” Leaning slightly at the black marble mantelpiece, Shivani narrated us an interesting story of Swamiji as to how he was always at a liberty to excuse himself for a walk, and the only way to hold him was to offer him ice cream [Miss Stumm] “that would turn him back instantly, and he would sink into his place with a smile of expectancy and pure delight seldom seen on the face of anybody over sixteen.”
From the dining hall, Shivani walked us back again to the sitting room from where we had started and directed us to come upstairs to show us Swamiji’s room. Here we were required to take off our shoes. As we were going up the blue, white-flowered carpeted stair case, Shivani’s words “These stairs have experienced Swamiji’s footsteps number of times.” transformed that simple climbing into a divine experience. An enormous portrait of Swamiji stood at the mid-point of the staircase in all its glory, permeating an aura of his brilliant and majestic presence all around. We bowed our heads in obeisance and climbed up. On the second floor, Shivani first walked us to Mr. Legget’s bedroom to the left, and then to Mrs. Legget’s bedroom through a common bathroom saying that in those days, husband and wife used to sleep in different bedrooms. Then she walked us to Swamiji’s room, and narrating a charming story about Swamiji and Swami Turiyannanada who also stayed there for some time, Shivani told us that ‘once Mrs. Leggett found Swami Turiyananda’s mattress and bedding on the floor of his room. When asked, if something was wrong with the bed, he assured her that the bed was fine, but he could not bring himself to sleep on the same level with Swamiji’, so he had put the mattress on the floor.’ Such was the devotion of Swamiji’s fellow disciples who revered him like their Guru.
Soon after, Shivani gave us a tour of the remaining two small bedrooms and walked us back downstairs where she led us to the other three small sitting rooms used respectively as a library, a book store, and a shrine where morning meditation and artis are performed. We then came out and Shivani pointed to the two houses, one on each side of the ‘Manor House’, where male retreatants stay for days and weeks to perform spiritual practices, and the other (where we went in first and made a phone call) where women retreatants stay. Pointing to the path that led from the house, Shivani remarked, “Swamiji used to take solitary early morning walks around the expansive grounds; he would pass the Casino (now houses women retreatants), and meet a road that led across an open field. At the end of this road was a huge spreading oak tree where Swamiji would meditate regularly, so the tree came to be known as “Swami’s Oak.”
Then she walked us back to the main house to show us the wide open porch where he would sit for long hours reading or giving spiritual talks to his hosts, the Leggets and other friends. As we stood enchanted by the picturesque view of the long stretch of field and hills, we heard Shivani telling us, “The huge trees around were saplings in Swamiji’s time, so he used to get unobstructed view of this greenery from his bed room window.”
Truly, the tranquil pristine surroundings mingled with Shivani’s stories of Swamiji’s stays at the Ridgely transported us to those times. My reverie was interrupted by Shivani’s words informing us that she would like for us to excuse her as she needed to attend to other chores. So we walked back to the house, thanked her for this incredibly transporting ‘tour’. Before heading back, we spent some time meditating in the shrine, and then before driving back home, a couple of minutes near ‘Swamiji’ Oak’.
This 30-40 minute tour of ‘Vivekananda Retreat’ given by Shivani, ( a dedicated volunteer of French origin), and the time spent at the shrine was truly an ethereal experience- an everlasting nourishment for the mind and the soul. The entire estate seemed to be so surcharged with his spiritual powers that I wondered, if listening about Swamiji’s stories at the ‘Retreat’, continues to enrapture spiritual seekers 110 years after his Maha Samadhi, what impact, what magic it would have cast on the people who were blessed to be in direct touch with him and had the opportunity to hear him talk about God.
I would like to wrap up my reflections with Swamiji’s inspiring words uttered during his stay at Ridgley, later quoted and framed in one of the small bedrooms on the second floor.
“What do I care if Mahomet was a good man, or Buddha! Does that alter my own goodness or evil? Let us be good for our own sake on our own responsibility! Not because somebody way back there was good!’-Swami Vivekananda
Quick Facts:
Address: Vivekananda Retreat, Ridgley
101 Legget Road, Stone Ridge, NY 12484
Phone: (845) 687-4574
Timings: The retreat is open to day visitors from 9am until 7pm.
For more details: Contact: gitaprana@ridgely.org